Every parent has high hopes that their children will not make the same mistakes as they did, but sometimes children like to be just like their parents and end up taking the same path. So, imagine my confusion and slight disappointment when my daughter casually hinted that she lost her virginity. This topic is not one that is often talked about among parents, so I thought it might be a good opportunity to share what went through my head the first time my daughter lost her virginity. Honestly, when my daughter hinted that she was no longer a virgin, my first thought was that there was no way she could have done something like that. My baby, my little girl is not old enough to be partaking in activities that are so grown up. I never believed my mom when she said that she still sees me as a child until my daughter grew up right in front of my eyes. My baby was no longer a baby, and I just could not process that information.
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I'm so upset my 16 year old daughter lost her virginity
Instead, I made her feel guilty and ashamed". Lucy had told me that several of her friends had lost their virginity. But so soon? How I cringe now as I recall my ranting.
Communication and trust is key. For communication, if you have a logical reason behind it, like a fear of her lover manipulating her, try your best to sit her down and have a talk about it. For trust, let her know that your love as a parent is unconditional, even if you may disapprove of her actions. However, with objectivity and unbiased logic you may be able to persuade her in accordance to your reasons.